Life as a wife, mum, daughter, career woman and friend. the ups and downs of parenthood, an open letter to my babies as they grow older.
Wednesday, 22 April 2026
Carter, 8 years old
My littlest love. You are far less quiet these days, and you wont tolerate anything you dont think is fair. You're still gentle and caring, but you can be a complete brute of a kid too when you dont feel like things are working out fairly.
You took to hockey like a pro. Stepping straight into that goalie kit first game and nailing it. You are just such an enthusiastic sportsman, your hard clapping when things go the teams way, pats on the back for your team mates when they do things well, it's obvious this is what you love to do. While your teacher is a big fan of yours you dont love school. you find it hard to sit still and you loath to read. We are getting you into see a dyslexic assessment specialist soon as Ican see alot of the same struggles Zoe had in you. You were so excited to finally compete at the CDS school swimming carnival and you were the ONLY 2 boys who could swim 50m! Mase came first and you, Carter came second. You also went away to Zone for Cross Country which you were most proud about, especially because you beat your cousin Adam!
You love being outdoors. Your whole face lights up if the neighbours ask you to play cricket in the vacant block. You'll never be as quick as Mason, but you are as strong as an Ox. You love the freedom on weekends to be out playing on the street with our neighbours, driving me crazy with coming in and out of the house a hundred times an hour, but it makes you smile. You love heading out to Woolgaro and spending time with Hegalo and the Teofilo and Reid families, the camping and paddle boards, being on the boat and biscuits and staying up late around the fire eating entirely too much junk food.
We lost our bestest dog Rudiger, which was devatsting to all of us, but you really took it hard. After a little whil we welcomed a new puppy (Impi) into the family and even though she's Zoes dog, you are smitten by her and care for her so well, its been amazing watching you with her.
You still love a cuddle from me, you refuse to walk into any room thats dark without someone with you and when you sleep walk, which happens when you overheat in bed, you always find your way into my bed. You desperately wish Coop would spend more time with you, you idolise him, which at times isn't great. You and Dean always seem to find yourself in trouble at Oma and Poppys house with your mischief!
you are: 129.5cm tall
you weigh 25.9 kilo
You've lost 6 baby teeth
you love: playing football, being at Forster, fishing, hockey and sleeping
your favourite food is: tuna morney
your best friend is still Mason but you play with Jordan and Ethan at school and Ollie at footy
you hate: Reading, Writting and when Zoe is being mean
Core memory knee boarding for the first time, going to the circus, jumping from the big rock at forster.
Turning 8 (Mase)
The years with you feel blurred and rushed and like I cant catch my breath. Its hard to recall all the amazing things you've done in the last 12 months. I guess I can start with being on the SRC for your school and being a bit of a wizz at maths and reading. You really thrive at school, I often check in with your teacher Ms Helen to check that you are sitting in class and not being the class clown (which at home is a role you settle right into). Nope, you're her star student, she adores you as you adore her, it's a match made in heaven for learning and it's so wonderful! You also finally got to compete at the CDS school swimming carnival and you were the ONLY 2 boys who could swim 50m! Mase you came first and Carter second. You also went away to Zone for Cross Country which you were most proud about!
You've got a good core group of friends, and about 6 girlfriends to keep happy (or so you tell me) but you still spend a lot of time attached to Carter. It's funny, you two will be at each other all day long but still beg to sleep in the same bed at night. Having a twin makes it much easier for me, but I miss the cuddles from you that I always had from Cooper at this age.
You are loving the freedom you are getting on weekends to be out playing on the street with our neighbours, driving me crazy with coming in and out of the house a hundred times an hour, but it makes you smile. You are full of confidence. How can I possible complain that you are outside, running, jumping, playing and finding your independance. You are in a real rush to grow up. You love heading out to Woolgaro and spending time with Hegalo and the Teofilo and Reid families. This year you even managed to get up on the knee board behind the boat which was amazing! We lost our bestest dog Rudiger, which was devatsting to you, but after a little whil we welcomed a new puppy (Impi) into the family and its been amazing watching you care for her.
We've spent plenty of time side line watching you play footy and the start of hockey season this year. You work hard at your skills and you enjoy the competition. I'm really enjoying you at this age. You're such a funny little boy.
You and Zoe have a turmultous relationship. Its very much hot and cold depending on her mood. You cant understand why 1 minute she's enjoying the game and the next your public enemy number 1. As Coop tells you, thats just girls mate.
Your best friends are: Carter, Ashlyn Kerr, Ethan, Ollie and Brock.
You have 6 adult teeth
You play league and hockey
You love spending time with the kids on the street, PlayStation games.
Core memoryth circus and being called into the ring with the clowns. Knee Boarding at Woolgaro, Rock and Peir jumping at Forster
Favourite food: Barbeto sauce on everything
You hate: when things aren’t fair, when Zoe prefers to play with Carter
You are 128.5cm tall
Your weight: 25.3kg
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